"For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope."   Jeremiah 29:11
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Relief for Hurting Parents

help for parents

We offer hope and encouragement for parents through teachings, discussion, and prayer. HOPE for Families is a parent group that meets every Wednesday evening at the ministry office located at 9700 W. 197th Street in Mokena, IL Suite 106.

The meeting time is 7:45 PM to 9:15 PM. Please call the office at (708) 479-2322 for more information or contact HOPE counselors:

Kathy Davis at kathy@houseofhopeillinois.org

A MUST for all parents ... Parents will learn how to develop a mind-set to discipline, heal, forgive, and reconcile. Our parent program offers "Relief for Hurting Parents", using the teachings of author Buddy Scott. Teachings include:

  • relieving pain
  • dealing with intimidation and manipulation from teens
  • building emotional and spiritual strength in parents
  • avoiding seven common mistakes made by parents
  • finding and removing issues that contribute to parent-child problems
  • reaffirming basic convictions for disciplining kids in today's times
  • assuring quality control
  • rescuing and recovering "prodigal" children
  • working effectively with family allies such as schools, counselors, treatment centers, juvenile authorities, police personnel

"When we are going through our roughest times, God helps us by putting the right people near our pathway — people He has been preparing for years to be qualified to help us during our crisis."

Buddy Scott


As parents of hurting teens, you might feel angry, guilty, helpless, embarrassed, and anxious. Your loving child is on a destructive path and you don't know what to do next. How do you help your child?

You need the friendship and understanding of others who can identify with what you are going through. Parents helping parents is important.

We encourage you to pray for your child daily. Contact others to pray with you. God understands your pain and He knows how you feel. Contact our prayer team for prayer.

>> A message from our prayer coordinator, Judy:

PRAY FOR OUR CHILDREN

God's word is our weapon.  The battle for our children's lives is waged on our knees.  When we don't pray, it's like sitting on the sidelines watching our children in a war zone getting shot at from every angle.  When we do pray, we're in the battle alongside them, appropriating God's power on their behalf.

If we also declare the Word of God in our prayers, then we yield a powerful weapon against which no enemy can prevail.   God's word is "living and powerful" and sharper than any two-edged sword" and it pierces everything it touches. (Heb 4:12).  Taken from the book "The Power of a Praying Parent" by Stormie Omartian.

 

 

 

quotes from our parents:

"If I listened to my friends and co-workers instead of the advice from HOPE for Families, I know for a fact I would not have my daughter today."

"I wish House of Hope was available when my son desperately needed help. We had no where to turn, no support during our time of crisis."

"She was not the same teen who walked into your office as when she walked out.  Thank you for what you do."

"Even though I do not attend HOPE for Families on a regular basis, the e-mails I receive from you show me that you really do care for me and my family."


parents...

Does you teen's behavior make you worry about their safety?
Does your teen have trouble at school?
Does your teen have mood swings that do not fit the situation?
Does your teen have a loss of interest in activities?
Is your teen secretive?
Is your teen involved with a gang?
Is your teen defiant?
Does your teen lack self-esteem and self-worth?
Is your teen using or experimenting with drugs or alcohol?
Does your teen have trouble with authority?
Has your teen had problems with the law?
Do you suspect your teen lies or is dishonest with you?
Do you suspect at times you have had money or other valuables taken from your home?
Are you concerned about your child's well being and their future?
Does your teen ever display violent behavior?
Is your teen manipulative and/or deceitful?
Is your teen verbally abusive?
Has your teen ever displayed any evidence of suicide ideation?